Saturday, February 18, 2012

Im a nerd, i need to know how to work that in my favor...for girls?

i met a girl at game stop today *she was the cashier* i am a nerd, but i want to impress her or something...i need help...im about to turn 16 in a few months and have never had a girlfriend, i haven't had practice with this sort of thing. I want to ask her for her number, and go out with her...she was the hottest girl i have ever seen there or anywhere where nerds usually hang out for that matter...we talked for a few minutes, and well...i need to know how to either be soo nerdy that it is cool...or i just need to know how to act...any info you can give me, or websites you can send me 2 would be greatly appreciated...btw, my and my friend made this type of "promise to each other that if i got a girl, i would help him get one, or the other way around, so far though he has had a lot more practice with this type of thing, but he hasn't had much luck lately *he has had like 20 girlfriends, and ive had none.



so if you have info on how to get this girl at gamestop, or any girl, or just info on girls in general from stuff you know...Nothing you can give me about this issue will be worth nothing. ty in advanceIm a nerd, i need to know how to work that in my favor...for girls?
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you sound so sweet.

you should talk to her and ask her out.

ask her her name and school,grade, etc.

then lead up to asking her if shes doing anything

over the weekend and then ask her out

try to be funny and charming.

good luck:]
dress up as Link and give her flowersIm a nerd, i need to know how to work that in my favor...for girls?
uhh.. well talk to her, if she seems interested, then just be yourself.



if not, dont try to be someone else. shes not worth it if she doesnt like you for who you are.



remember to be confident and compliment her looks, since apparently, shes HOT!
go up and say a funny joke, then just talk to her and flirtIm a nerd, i need to know how to work that in my favor...for girls?
well don't worry i'm 13 and i know these things. First of all just go ask her tell her these lines look I've seen you here and I just have to say that ...well do you want to go out sometime. Don't seem to desperate but just a little so she doesn't think you're going to do bad things to her
even if you need to, just tell her something along the lines of 'yea im kinda shy i suck at talking to girls' she'll think its cute if she interested.
Hmm after thinking about this a little bit, I think extreme will hurt you. She works somewhere where nerds usually convene therefore obviously she appreciates nerdiness at least somewhat and pretending not to be a nerd would not be a wise idea. However she works with nerds and spends all day with them, therefore by being really really nerdy you won't stick out from the crowd; you will be like all the other guys who hit on her at game stop. You got to show her you aren't totally interested in nerdy stuff and you have some outside interests; in other words you don't spend all day playing WoW. However do bring up some of your nerdy habits; that's shows personality and also I assume is part of who you are (you can't hide who you are or it won't work out in the long run). Basically show her you are a nerd, but that's not all you are. I hope I helped at all, and best of luck.
I hate to sound cheesy, but be yourself. Girls can tell when guys are trying too hard. Most guys think they're smooth and can get away with stuff like that but just about every girl i know can see right through it and it kind of just makes us laugh.

That being said, obviously if she works at gamestop, you two have similar interests. Look into her eyes occasionally when you talk to her. Don't like stare her down, but if you make eye contact it shows that you're confident and interested. Ask her some basic general questions even something cute like "What's a girl like you doing working at gamestop?" If you notices she laughs a lot (not an uneasy laugh) or kind of flirts back a little try straight up asking her for her number.

Most of all just be confident (but not overly so) and be yourself. We can tell when you're being fake but most girls do like when guys are confident. Oh, and don't tell her how you're a nerd as many times as you told us, we got the point ;)

good luck!!
good luck getting your gamer girl! you gotta be realistic with this kinda girl because she plays on your turf. she's used to guys hitting on her and being cheesy. be her friend, treat her respectfully, invite her to a gaming party (or a LAN party)... keep your cool :) if you don't she's gonna see right through you.
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