Sunday, February 12, 2012

What to do if someone makes fun of you in front of a girl?

So theres this kid makes fun of me. Pretty much bullys me I dont know if its considered bullying. Im in grade 12 so the dudes acting immature. One time at lunch he threw some fries at my shirt, I stood up and was so pissed I wanted to **** him up. Then when he stood up I realized hes too tall and i would loose anyways. So I joking laughed so that it all seemd like a joke. Anyways I cant fight this guy so fighting is not the answer. Iv made fun of him at any chance I could, and I try to ignore him and all. I thought he would grow up now and he hasn't.



The guy is pretty good in like alot of things. He doesnt know how to game girls but he manages to get more friends that are girls. I have like a few friends that are girls because of my personality. I am just strictly to attraction and dont like just socializing with girls for no reason, same with guys I only have a few but good friends ( everyone in my grade knows me so im not a looser.)



Anyways look , I aint a looser nerd or what ever, I am a normal kid. I hate violence and I like ****** NEVER get mad infront of somone. Iv only been mad in front of somone like 10 times my whole life ( other than my family). And only experience the adrenalin rush 2wice , when getting bullied and i snapped.



*****************************

[READ HERE IF YOU JUST WANT TO ANSWER THE QUESTION WITH OUT THE BACKGROUND INFO]

**************************************…



Ok I will get to the point, this guy, he has 4th period spare and I am having 4th spare now because of a course change. My best friend hangs out with these girls and the bully guy is there too. Somtimes the guy is cool but I just hate the dude. Anyways, I want to chill with them at 4th spare because the girl is pretty hot. Now I dont like the fact that the guy is there because hes ganna try n make fun of me or talk ****.



My older friend who is a pua told me to just ignore people if they say things. Then it makes them look stupid.



Iv tried sticking up for my self. I always stand up for my self but the guy never stops.



He says something about me jokingly and i dont like it. Thats just me, but i laugh and smile for some reason. I make it look like i understand the joke and that im not offended. Usualy because theres girls there.



what should I do?What to do if someone makes fun of you in front of a girl?
well when he makes fun of you, just laugh it off , %26amp; act liek it dosent bother you at all. %26amp; just ignore it cuz he only does it cuz he no's it gets to you %26amp; you get mad, if you just laugh it off he'll realize hes wasting his time. %26amp; hes making fun of you in front of the girls to impress them, or to make him self feel better bout him self by bullying other people. so jus ignore it , dont waste your time feeling down cuz a stupid guy has no life , n needs to make fun of others to make himself feel good. alright i hope i cud help youu . goodluck. %26amp; alsooo! when yourr hanging out with him on 4th period, n he trys making fun of you, when he starts cut him off, and start talking to the girls and other about something else. %26amp; if that dont work, when he does make fun of you jus laugh it of n act normal. %26amp; then jus say something funny about him. %26amp; then everyone will laugh it off ! hope i cud help !
Insult him, if you cant match him physically then outsmart him mentally, make him look and feel stupid.What to do if someone makes fun of you in front of a girl?
go get a puerto rican from the hood...tell him to scare him up
tell him what you thinkWhat to do if someone makes fun of you in front of a girl?
people that tries to bully physically tries to be better than you. He relies on social backup. If people laugh when he does that ****, he gets encouraged. Now, (unless he is an eager-to-fight type of person), next time he tosses bullshit at you, get a nice comeback. People will then laugh at him instead. You could also just look at him in the most youre-a-weirdo-look way you can, and pretend you thought he was being dumb.

He'd probably stop.



try googling some comebacks if youre not very good at it ;)
You are doing everything right, by laughing and making it a joke. He is obviously jealous of you. Every time he makes you angry just think of why he is doing it. and that you are better than him. The more you act un-bothered by his nuisance, the more it will ultimately bother him until eventually he moves onto a new victim.
Teenage. Usually bully's do this because they want to make themselves look better in front of a girl. In so doing, they make you look bad and themselves look better. Just ignore him the best that you can. He is not worth the effort for getting upset, and besides you don't want to make it look as though he won anything. My advice would be to just ignore him as best you can. Good luck.
Dude, you have totally make fun of him for being a complete ogre and having the worst manner this side of New Delhi, India. In fact, you should nickname “Ogre.” Tell him that he will never get laid in college, with such shitty manners. If he digarees, just say “Really???” Pause, then smirk to yourself.



Also, ask him daily if he is going to start a food fight. See Animal House the movie, the R rated version if you don’t know what I mean.



Pauly
Well first off be gently because he sounds like a closet homosexual. I can't be for sure but he might like you too. I would just try and be an adult and take him to the side and be like "Dude us guys are all in this together and you're cock blocking me by giving me all this crap in front of the ladies." It might work.
I had exactly the same situation when I was in school. I eventually learned how to retort to him and make him look as stupid as he was trying to make me look, and after a while he began to respect me and stopped treating me like that and saw me as an 'equal'. Unfortunately by the time he realised I was at least equal, if not superior, to him, it was too late; I hated him.



Until then I just ignored him and everyone else saw how much of a prick he was. He would say something and I wouldn't even look at him or smile, I would carry on talking to the other person pretending the guy was on the other side of the world.
Man up or stay away from this group. Find a group without this person. Take some self defense courses while you are staying away from the group, then go back and kick his ***.
Learn to be quick on your feet, mentally and physically. If he starts insulting you, insult him back, if he tries to get ruff get ruff back. Yeah, you might end up with a beating but it's better than being a pussy.
I feel sorry for you the guy sounds like a jackass.

Whenever he makes a stupid comment about you, just come back with one straight away. Like a quick witty comeback that makes fun of him- that way the girls laugh at him and then he looks stupid.



Carry on laughing at him too- he obviously wants a reaction from you, so keep ON making a joke of it- i'm sure he will get bored at some point because it shows you aren't bothered.



OR if all fails, tell him to grow up, grow a penis and act like a MAN not a child for a change;)



Good luck=).







OOORR give him a nice kick in the nuts-then run- because you are smaller than him :)
just give him a glance like he is stupid, and you are to busy with the girl to care. make sure the gir notices that you are not playing his game because you are to focused on her. they like to be the center of attention!
Making fun of him is just stooping to his level. Laugh at his jokes and if he throws any more food at you (if its stuck to your shirt and you know its not dirty) just take it off and eat it and thank him for the snack. Whatever you do, don't let it show to him or anyone else that it bugs you. And only get physical if he starts it and even then only go far enough to get him off of you, if he comes at you again, only do enough to get him off of you. Not only will this get him to stop but all the intelligent girls will see you're more of a man than he is and therefore be more interested in YOU.

No comments:

Post a Comment