I think I need to step away from the game (getting girls)?

Back in April, I had the confidence to talk to a girl that I thought was really attractive (we work together). I was really excited to hear that she liked me back and she even called me a few times.



But during one of our phone conversations, I asked her was she interested in a short term casual relationship. She said "Eeee..we havent known each other that long"...but we still are cool and still speak to each other at work.



Just today, I got my heartbroken when I found out that during the earlier times of speaking to her, she had sex with her ex. That really hurt me bad, and my mind was flooded with painful memories of girls choosing other guys before me. During the summer, she been flirting and talking to me all the time, acting like she likes me and gets disapointed when I don't speak to her.



Today, I realized that I wont speak to any more girls (flirting wise) because it's not working for me. I'm 24 and never had a girl. Even my dad had to set something up for me with an older woman and she dont even respond to my text messages anymore. Girls seem like they like me (more than a friend) but wont gimme any ____ :( ....There's other things that make me happy and I think I need to step away from attempting to get girls. They all say I'm cute but they don't want anything to do with me. My luck is so bad with girls, I'm thinking about killing myself. If this is so bad while I'm single, why get into a relationship?



I'm thinking about going on another shift to avoid her. I don't want to see her or speak to her again. Does anybody agree with me?I think I need to step away from the game (getting girls)?
Before you give up all hope you need to realize and remember one thing:



Relationships are like a game of Tug of War. If they pull you go towards them. If you pull they come towards you.



In other words...play a little hard to get. Don't act so interested all the time. Some girls like the thrill of the chase. That doesn't mean ALL women but some do. With this particular female she is a case in point.



From your passage you seem like the type the doesn't mind talking to someone all the time. It takes time to find someone compatible. Be Patient. Good things come in time and all of these life experiences that you are going through are making you better for the One that is truely meant for you.

I think I need to step away from the game (getting girls)?
definatly, she is a jerk.