Thursday, February 2, 2012

Do guys prefer mean girls?

What are guys really looking for? I have tons of guy friends, in fact I pretty much only have guy friends. I get asked out a lot and date a lot, but I haven't had any boyfriends that lasted more than a year. It's always the same thing, they'd rather be friends or friends with benefits. Guys tell me I'm a lot of fun, that I'm sexy, that I'm cool. They say I'm great in bed and love that I'm sexually adventurous. They love that I don't play mind games and that I like sports and video games and comic books. They love that they can talk to me and hang out and that I'm not a high maintenance girl, but I'm still single. So what are guys really looking for?



Do guys really want a bitchy, mind game playing girl who's going to make them wait for sex even though you both really want to? And when you do have sex she just lies there and hates it? Who won't let them watch football, and doesn't like their friends and won't cook, and will always nag them? Is that who I should be instead?



I'm not desperate for a boyfriend or anything, but it bugs me that my friends talk about how great I am, and then complain to me about these bitchy girls they date, and say how much they wish their girlfriends were "cool" like me. Um, I'm right here, what's wrong with dating me?Do guys prefer mean girls?
Sounds like the guys you date are scared of your confidence in yourself. Guys like to take care of a girl by nature. They like a girl who has needs and guys want to help the girl fulfill those needs. A guy loves when a girl feels safe with him.



Maybe your hanging out with the guys that only want you for your body. Nothing wrong with having fun and lots of sex(but keep it safe).



I think you'll find the right guy someday. A guy who can fulfill your needs and make you happy. A guy who is confident enough in himself to be strong for you.



AND don't worry ~~ once you find the right guy and are with him long enough, there will be plenty of things to be bitchy about. That is also human nature ~~ hehe
Rare guys like mean girls, if they like it, they do for their benefits (Sex, Information, hook up with her female friend, ... etc)

Try to be a loving friend not a cool one if you want to date.Do guys prefer mean girls?
I don't know what's wrong with those guys. Maybe they see you as more of a "cool" friend with whom they can hang out like they would with other guys. I would totally date a girl like you, though.
Hell no I like the nice girls. U will ffind a guy u just have to go out and get them waiting doesnt always work. Awnser my last question pleaseDo guys prefer mean girls?
Depends on your age

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