hi l am 16 year old girl, and wow l have met some nasty snobby girls. like in one class there is this snobby girl and she has this superiority complex and she thinks she better than me and is only nice to me when she needs something. Whenever l was nice to her she never appreciated it so l stopped now and usually ignore her but she sits near me unfortunately. And then there is this other girl in my other class who just hates me so much because l do not fit her standards, because lm not the girl with straight pin hair, and the fancy expensive clothes, and makeup, and she always gives attitude if she has to talk to me and even slammed the paper on my desk once, wow what b*tch! lm more of a laid back kind of girl and l admit my my looks are not that great and some of these girls think lm disgusting because of it. its hard to find nice cool girls who dont really care what you look like or what you wear and like video games. l was lucky enough to find 4. probably where l live (NYC) Does this happen to you? do you know ways to deal with these types of girls and make them feel bad? killing them with kindnesss does not really work and i would feel sick in my stomach if l were nice to those peasants. because l know there will definitely some in the workplace, oh boy,
thanksHow do you deal with mean high maintenance fake snobby girls =/? question mostly for women?
I ignore them. When I was younger, I would usually retaliate with an attitude and be mean back, but that's exactly what they wanted...they wanted a reaction and drama and attention.
I found that ignoring them actually worked quite well..and it irritated the crap out of them and they eventually just shut up. When I was 14 I had to deal with a girl like that and I COMPLETELY ignored her. I wouldn't even look her way...and it made her so mad.
Also, the first answer is correct. Girls who act like that are usually insecure or have some problems with themselves.
I had a bunch of those in my class, they were older than everybody else. I would not pay attention to them, but never allowed them to bully me: I always retaliated, so that they stopped trying to bully me, but they kept bullying other girls.How do you deal with mean high maintenance fake snobby girls =/? question mostly for women?
Just remember that they are doing this because they are insecure about them selves. They hide behind makeup and "nice" clothes and put others down so they can feel better. Also, where do you think they are going to get in life? Who wants *****'s working for them all day?
I BREAK THEM DOWN.How do you deal with mean high maintenance fake snobby girls =/? question mostly for women?
The solution to your dilemma is to be more loving toward them and everyone else you come upon than you have ever been. This seems harder than it will be and is the KEY to HAPPINESS. They will then question what sets you apart. When they're ready, you'll have this to share with them. We all chose, planned and created our own lives. Before time began, our creators, who had so much to give cloned themselves, we are the result. We had no experiences though to set us apart, so we made a plan and programmed our own consciousnesses to act on our behalf while we moved through life believing ourselves to be responsible for things we could not understand. We were unconscious, you see, our consciousness made up our minds for us making us to believe false things that always disappointed and disillusioned. We also put our SELFs in a fog of forgetfulness, no longer remembering who we were, along with forgetfulness, we forgot much of our lives needing to record somehow those memories most precious to us. You now have what humanity has been searching for thousands of years. Your SELF and my SELF once planned even this together. Now pass it forward as we move to transcendence as a family on home. LOVE is the WAY the TRUTH and the LIGHT! Peace
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