I am a 20 yr old college male student, still wondering why i am single?

I am sick and tired of hearing girls complain they cant find a good guy. I always hear, ur a nice, cool, smart guy and a great person. Well, if I am so great why am I still single? Seems every girl i talk to doesn't want a relationship, or "just wants to be friends" or just plain and simple not into to me. I often feel like she will never come into my life. Sometimes i wonder if i am too mature for some girls. I am not like the average 20 yr old guy, i am ready to settle with that special someone. I have a lot of success just as a sophomore in college that some seniors don't even have. I have been told, im to nice, i see you like a brother, i just want to be friends and nothing more. This really brothers me because i build up feelings for her then she rejects me. I have never really had a real relationship. I'm just sick of the BS and games girls play, why cant people grow up and be a mature person.

Ready to settleI am a 20 yr old college male student, still wondering why i am single?
As a 20 year old male college student, you are not going to find a ton of girls your age looking for the same thing.



I suggest you continue to try to meet women, even a few older ones who have been around the block.



Before you consider settling, figure out why you want to do so. Date around, do not start with the idea of having anything serious.



20 years old is a time that you should really get to know yourself well. It is good that you are letting the ladies know your intentions. Wait until you think they are ready. You sound as if your life would end if you are not in a relationship. You will come to discover is that not every woman is relationship material or perfect for you.



Do not settle for now. You and the women your age have so much to learn and experience.
people are stupid they cant get past looks to see how great a person can be(: you sound like your going to be a very sucessfull man and you will make some women a very happy wife and have an amazing familly college girls are to caught up in partying or looks but personality is what matters(: I wish you luck (:I am a 20 yr old college male student, still wondering why i am single?
well its college people arejjust looking to hool up right now. just try talking to differet girls. you will fnd the one
talk to some older womenI am a 20 yr old college male student, still wondering why i am single?
It's simply because you're more mature than average. I've noticed that guys in their early 20's aren't mature. I'm 24, still haven't found a guy who has grown out of the whole "party phase" and having sex with as many women as possible. The way I see it, girls have their own little phase too. They want to find a guy who sweeps them off their feet. They have certain standards and expectations that are unrealistic, and they are focused on fulfilling their emotions and getting the right kind of attention from the perfect guy. They are out to find "The One". I don't know how to explain it better than that. Eventually they will realize that they just want to settle with a nice guy like you. So keep focusing on college and getting your life together. At this point, it's more critical that you focus on yourself. Eventually it will fall into place when you're a couple years older. Just be patient.