I need someone to read this situation and tell me upfront what both girls really think about me?

Ok so here is how it goes..... I started college in September. I know that in general terms I can be viewed as one of the really ugly boys by girls and don't have the dark skin/dark hair and desireable features that girls go for, but I am tall and have nice blonde hair which makes me feel that I can be viewed as ok looking at times. There is a girl called Sarah in my class. There is also a girl called Rachel and this is how it is.





I went into my course confident and acted confident and played it cool for the first two weeks. I still felt awkward at times but overall I was happy with the impression I was leaving. I first met Sarah at my friends room one night and she goes ''oh Michael you're in my class' . I was like yeah that's me... her friend was in the room too, and she was also in my class (not rachel) and i was introduced to her. We sat around talking and that and Sarah looks at her friend and was like ''so yeah Michaels in our class'' (as if she was trying to make something happen between us). Her friend looked at her and shaked her head as if to say noooooooooooo and Sarah started giggling.... Anyways I left room but added her on facebook the next day and got to know her through the class and that. She is a nice cool girl.





Introduce Rachel. I met Rachel one night when she was very drunk and was all over me and was like ''oh ya you're in my class.'' She was all over me for a bit that night but I left it because she was too drunk. Two nights later she came over to me in a club again, fell on top of me and cuddled up beside me. I didnt want to take advantage of her so just went to a different couch. She came over to me again so I thought I'd bring her for a walk to a different couch. On the way she met another guy she knew and was chatten to him but we continued walking, then sat down about to kiss but she left me then to go off with the other guy.... I briefly got to know her in class as well.





A couple weeks later a few people in my class were going out. Sarah goes to me the next day ''you should have come out last night Michael. she then goes ''Rachel was on about you all night''. I was like ''ok.... what did she say then''. - ''She thinks your a stud'' then Sarah began to giggle/laugh. I didnt get my hopes up too much. I noticed on rachels page the next day sarah had written ''sluhh'' (as in slutt, obviously just messing about)... but this could have been about anything. I know it sounds so far as if both of them were maybe trying to play games with me but I'm friends with them both so I know that this is definitely not the case.





Anyways Two weeks later we were going out for Sarahs birthday. Rachel text me that night to see if I was going out and I told her I was etc... but when I got there she was with another fella. I was confused where I stood with rachel so I asked sarah what Rachel really said that time and she told me that yeah she said I was a stud. I remained friends with Sarah for the next couple months but rarely saw rachel. There were times when Sarah may have being with girls in my class and being like ''hey this is Michael''





Anyways Tonight i was chatting to Sarah and we had a good 20 minute chat. I asked her what did rachel really say that time and she was like ''this is like the 5th time you've asked me that Michael, I told you what she said''. I then asked ''yeah but did she ever like me'' she was like ''i dont know, I never discussed it with her'' I was like ''Did she know I liked her''... she was like ''no i never said anything, unless when we were drunk''. I then stated how I was texting her for a bit but it fizzled out and nothing happend. Sarah was just like 'ahrite', and we continued talking about different things before saying goodnight.





My mpression is that that Sarah and the other girls I know in my class think I'm cool and like me as a friend but don't find me attractive. I think this because I played my cards right from day one in class (didnt make myself available, played it cool etc), yet nothing ever happened with sarah or orhters. As for Rachel, I feel she did find me attractive but somewhat didnt like admitting it and perhaps the girls didnt agree with her at all when she made the stud comment. I also think that Sarah would have played more of a part in making something happen between me and Rachel if she genuinely thought we were right. Its almost as if the stud comment was something they didnt take seriously....





I know this was very long and analysed but its something which has been bothering me for months. I just need a good but honest opinion from someone who knows their stuff when it comes to boys and girls. Thank you in advance :)|||Ask Sarah on a date.. Take it from there. Rachel was a party girl, and party girls just like to party. Sarah seems.. nice enough for you. Ask her out.|||i think that sarah fancies you


whereas racheal is just sexually attracted to you.


if i was you i would choose sarah he seems like a nice girl|||Sarah likes you, counting the number of times you have talked about Rachel to her she seems slightly jealous (not insulting her) that you kept asking her about another girl. My advice would be to go out with Sarah just the two of you and see if anything happens, that is if you really like her as her and not a girl or less than Rachel. Good luck!|||Maybe Sarah fancies you ? She seems to have been counting the times you have asked her about Rachel ? Cannot tell for sure about Rachel. You say she has been drinking on both ocassions.


The fact is, either Rachel 'hang on to you' because she liked you and trusted you or because she fancied you (One or the other). Plain and simple, the only way to know for sure, is to ask one of them out. Believe me, it has been done before and you will then know for sure, instead of always wondering ! Hope this helps.|||I think you need to let both of them go %26amp; move on. Sarah sounds like a nice girl, but she comes across to me like she likes you as a friend. As for Rachel, she comes across as a party girl who seems to enjoy drinking in excess and throws herself at other guys when she inebriated. I mean think about it she had no problem dumping you to go throw herself at some other guy when you were at the club. You sound like a nice guy (since you didn't take advantage of her when she was so drunk %26amp; you could have), you should have no problem finding another girl. You want someone who wants to be with you and appreciates your company. Good Luck!